one last hoorah.

it's been a while. a very long long while. and truth be told, if it weren't for the weekly trickling of email questions and readers who stumble across this little nook and crannie, i may have just left well enough alone. i felt it was only fair to sneak back in one last time to let anyone interested know that i'm in a new place in my life. as such, i have a new blog (dblybamba.squarespace.com)- perhaps our paths will one day cross again, no?

Lost In Translation... Venue

Firstly, it is important that I state that I love drawing inspiration from the past- but that is where it must stop.... inspiration. You don't want your wedding looking like your grandmother's living room any more than you want it to look like those "dated" weddings of tulle and mirror centerpieces. So let's examine a few rules that I have for creating a vintage- err- timeless affair.


Rule ONE: Don't make it LOOK like something, make it BE something....


This is an important one. You see, I completely agree that you need a VISION and a COHESIVE THREAD.... but sometimes we can take this a little too literal and the party looks over styled and like a kid in a costume. You don't want it to resemble a Hollywood Glamour Feel- you want it to emulate that feeling on its own.... One of the easiest ways to fall into this catagory is by bad venue choice. If you want a lavishly grand event, then opt for a lavishly grand environment. Go for Architecturely Interesting Spaces. In truth, your money is better spent in finding a space that sets the tone rather than trying to make another space into your ideal setting. Dressing up a banquet hall in hundreds of flowers doesn't make it have a "garden feel".... slapping a few palms into a museum doesn't make it tropical.... embrace the space you are in and make sure that every decision you make is indicative of the overall vision you have.
Find beautiful spaces that will not need so much to enhance them. Rather than look at their price tag and think - Oh no, but what about everything else? - Think... well in reality there won't be as much "something else's" because I won't need to bring in all the other "stuff"... A gorgeous space will be gorgeous for decades to come- it is my firm belief that some of these "platinum, over the top affairs" will seem a little dated in the coming years. Your space needs to make you feel something... and that something should be the same feeling that you are trying to acheive with the overall design. (This is the ceremony site of my upcomming nuptuals.... we chose the oak for so many reasons- this massive tree makes you feel as though you are in the prescence of something so much greater than you- something that has sustained so much and something that you want to understand. We are going for a warm, approachable, but still very moving event. I think that this tree hits all of our marks.)

Lost in Translation.

So when does vintage become a little played out? Yes- I am really saying that. As someone that drools over early Vogue, obsesses over Old Hollywood, and holds Burlesque Queens in high regard.... I never thought that the day would come when I would say that I am a little over the whole "vintage is cool" movement. The reason that all of the before mentioned resonated with me was because of their timelessness... Now I am faced with wide-eyed brides brining in kitschy flea market finds by the bus load, hoping that we can work it into their wedding and make emulate the same feeling.... The truth is, I just can't. I won't. I'm sorry. It's just that throwing up a few Vogue posters and naming the tables after Silverscreen Starlettes isn't going to transform your affair into a timeless piece of art.

It is time that we come to terms with reality... we need to discuss what makes a MODERN wedding timeless, and understand that VINTAGE elements of style are wonderful, but in moderation- and only when it assists the design.

Over the next few posts, hopefully I can clear up what my version of a "vintage" wedding is ... and more importantly, what it is not.

Sliding back in under the radar...

I was just over at Perfectbound where I saw this....

and it reminded me of an event that I did a couple years back. I had a bride with a really challenging color concept.... royal purple, grass green, sunshine yellow... and just a hint of coral here and there....

At first I was a little frightened by the hodge-podge of colors, but in the end- the bride's enthusiasm told us to just go for it....

When you decide to go with such a BOLD color choice, then it is important that it is done in such a way as to appear effortless and not forced- otherwise you run the risk of coming off too strong and much like a child's birthday party. Bold colors are fun, but often can loose their elegance in translation.

So our recipe for that day went something like this:


1. Hold the wedding at MOCA, a modern art museum downtown... which provided a blank canvas of white walls and steel so as to not compete with the color choices. It is very important that brides realize that their choice of venue must dictate the design- and if the design or colors are chosen first, then the venue must follow suit... there is nothing worse then walking into a ballroom that is trying to be a tropical wedding.... or walking onto a beach where the beautiful shoreline is littered with trellis and garden arches. So remember.... you want it to flow naturally and effortlessly- don't force it.

2. We shipped in really vibrant flowers- keeping it simple. Using granny smith reindeer moss, tulips, mini callas, orchids, bear grass, bells of ireland, and wire we created arrangements that weren't (as the bride said) "fluffy". Playing with submerged pieces and free-form design, we sought to bring the contemporary sculptural art from the museum into the flower arrangements as well without getting too strange for the bride's somewhat reserved taste.











3. Next, we took a space that was very open and disected it. When the ceremony, cocktails, and reception are taking place in one location it is very important that you consider the flow. Just like a fine story, an event should have a beginning, a climax, and a denouement. We acheived this by seperating the space using white sheer voile fabric, hung loosely over the exposed piping... creating a backdrop for the ceremony- adding a little lighting caused a really dramatic effect and brought in the coral... later in the evening, the fabric was tied into oversided knots to reveal the buffet, stations, and cake. We also used lighting to our advantage. Due to the fact that the guests would be able to view the galleries at their leisure during the cocktail hour and later on, we could not give the space that low lighting effect, so we had to bring in bold uplighting to shoot up the 20+ ft walls... in doing this, we were able to seperate the spaces by color and then coordinate it with the linens to further give a distinct spacial layout.








4. From here, we began adding those special little details that brought together the overall design and made it personal to the bride and groom.... having an arts and crafts table for the kiddies... serving "MOCA" covered coffee beans.... passing the food on artist palettes, having signature drinks named after the couple's hometowns, a little of the couple's personality on the napkins and program (with a quote from their fav. movie Patch Adams)... a family friend played the violin prior to the ceremony and during the processional...she walked down the aisle to "Groovy kind of Love"- gave him a drum set grooms cake, and they danced to the Beetles....

This particular design was successful in its execution because we kept in mind several things:

1. Keep it simple. Don't over design or try to be too ambitious in your design.

2. Keep in mind your timeframe. For this design, we only had a few months and we knew that we would have a very strict and limited schedule for set up and break down at the museum. Because of this, we opted to keep it basic but impactual.

3. Keep your budget in mind. Sure, we considered doing Andy Warhol-inspired floral portraits of the couple... but let's be realistic.... this was a young couple in love and the last thing we wanted was to send them off into the great big world with a mound of debt- so we kept the outline figure in mind throughout the process... they opted to have a couple of stations but mainly passed trays throughout the reception. They cut back on flowers by working with us to have minimalistic designs in mass and single groupings. They chose basic bengaline linens, but chose to keep the tables minimal and provide lounge seating and a tent for overflow. They didn't go crazy with decor or trying to fill the big space- rather, they used inexpensive lighting techniques to their advantage. This allowed them to focus their budget on a live band, the museum galleries for their guests, and the venue. I love that we were able to illustrate how a designer can help you stay within budget, not bust it.

4. Don't compete with the environment. Playing off of the art, we were able to make this crazy color scheme work. We allowed the museum to speak for itself and allowed the decor to unfold around it seamlessly. Our overall concept was to just "dress up" the space- taking a stance that if one were to go to a lavish afair, they would keep their own sense of style but just jazz it up a little... and that is what we saught to do with the space- put it in its sunday best......

One Stop Shop: CB2

Who doesn't love CB2? They are my "other Ikea"... and much of my own wedding is inspired by their line of lab-vases. What I love about CB2 is that they often assist in illustrating to my brides how a white wedding can be modern and crisp and clean. When I have a bride that is struggling to find her voice in a sea of viable color options... I like to suggest that she not choose one or two or three- rather go with an all white canvas and add punches of colors in her desired intensity. If she decides to go muted, it will come off feminine- bold, it will come off modern, patterned and bold- very ecclectic..... and so- here is my version of a tongue-in-cheek swanky soiree for a young couple that don't take themselves too seriously.... enjoy.

One Stop Shop: Ikea Formal

When I enter Ikea, I feel a sense of excitement that is far different than my other favorite stores- mainly because when I enter, I do not have to calculate the total in my head or decide whether I can afford the single picture frame or the candleholder... no my dear friend Ikea allows me to shop as though I were in the financial state I dream of being in.... Ikea is my little shot of champagne on a beer budget- and for that I am grateful.

I turn to Ikea often when designing weddings. It is great for bulk small vases or textiles- especially for my more modern brides. The first in this little trio is for the gal that wants to go highly sophisticated but stay well within her means... thus the color scheme is black, white, and chartreuse- very modern, yet decidedly timeless. My thoughts were of this bride being practical and opting for a cocktail reception with passed hor deurves rather than a seated dinner or buffet... I imagine this in either an art gallery or a loft space or even a raw urban setting (perhaps a rooftop garden?) The idea is to keep it simple yet refined....

Even when hosting a cocktail reception, it is important to still have an evolution throughout the evening... which can be a little tricky when everything is taking place in ONE location. The way to do this is by building up the story through the use of lighting, menu, and entertainment. Perhaps have a dusk wedding (see eachother before the wedding and get the pictures out of the way, also opt for a day-after photo session)... keep the ceremony simple. I love the idea of the bride wearing the signature chartreuse and her maids in black- skipping the tux for the guys and keeping them in cool and sleek cocktail attire.... The maids carrying callas, the bride carrying phaelenopsis orchids with beargrass loops.... tons of candles everywhere....I love the idea of taking the unity candle concept a bit further (esp at dusk weddings)... by having tapers at all guests' chairs... then during the ceremony, having the bride and groom take their unity candle and light the MOH/Best Man's candles- letting this one flame slowly go down the line and then extend to all of the guests... the symbolism is so moving to see this small flicker make its way thorughout the entire wedding-

Guests are lead to the cocktail reception by luminaries- signature chartreuse drinks, an agressively ecclectic menu cleverly displayed, and a live musician (piano soloist- think Nora Jones or Kate Nash) will set the tone. I really love the idea of having a polaroid station- and at this wedding having clotheslines overhead with tiny black pins to display them "gallery style" works well... just snap, write a message, and then pin it up to display (have someone collect them at the end of the night)

It is always a good idea, if you are going to do something like this, to have SOME SEATING for those elderly guests, pregnant guests, etc. I suggest having a "reserved table" for parents/grandparents/couple... as well as extended seating for about 1/3 of guests. Keep the tables SMALL (about 4-5) to encourage mingling and emphasize the cocktail feel.... As the night draws onward, you can have a couple of stations (pasta, sushi, etc) open for an hour or so... do this tactfully so that not everyone is rushing to the limited seating at once. Keep the hor deurves comming, getting a little heavier now-
***For a wedding of 100, that means about 30 should have a firm seat at a table- which also means that you can splurge a little and get decor for these that you really love, to later transition into your home.

Once the group has mingled and the stations have lost their pizzaz... it is time to get the party started! I LOVE LOVE LOVE a band- but if you must have a dj- opt for lounge/house music for this particular affair. The passed selection should move into lighter and perhaps dessert selections... there should be a change in lighting (from candlelight to bold color shooting up the walls, plants, etc)... Lounge furniture is always a great compliment to your limited seating.... and simple arrangements which use open-bookcases as dividers really make an impact! (Fill the shelves minimally with items from your courtship, framed photos of your guests' weddings, etc)... Hire a performer to keep the energy up (think cirque du soleil or have a sand-artist onsite.... Have stretch fabric overhead here and there, projecting black and whites of your engagement... and end the evening with an unexpected parting gift in leui of favors (think espressos at the valet, individual morning-after packets (aspirin, earplugs and a bottled miniature of the "sig drink" labeled "hair of the dog") at the coatcheck)

The idea with this design is to keep everything manageable.... by cutting the portions, the seating, and perhaps the guestlist- you will save TREMENDOUSLY... less flowers, less linens, less food= less money. But, more importantly, it is about taking a concept and keeping all of the elements in line with that rather than focusing too much on keeping it "wedding-like or bridal"...

One Stop Shop: Anthropologie Offbeat

The last in our little trio on Anthro. will be for the gal who loves this store not only for its gorgeous inventory... but also for its inspiring displays. Lets face it, part of the way that we justify their somewhat hefty pricetags is because of that warm fuzzy feeling we instantly get when we step in- the space is just so inspiring and unexpected...

So while you can definately justify purchasing many of these items for your wedding and then reusing them for your home- a little part of you wants those creative projects that all the brides around the blog-scene drool over....

I suggest that you look towards Anthro's gorgeous window and product displays for inspiration when styling the event.... by mixing highs (beautiful tea cups, platters, and select furniture pieces) with lows:

straw chandliers

straw chargers

mason jar lighting


newspaper (or love letter)space divider/definers


sticks- lots of sticks

You will be able to stay within budget, keep it indicative of YOUR STYLE, and even have a mound of useful pieces for your married life. Perhaps you could have one of the art directors at your local Anthro commissioned to be a part of your team??

Good luck! And for all you IKEA gals- check back later as that will be our next stop in the series....

One Stop Shop: Anthropologie Elegant

When I go to Anthropologie, I know that I am in for a treat- I get that same giddy feeling as when I go to an amazing antique shop... only better because I know that I won't have to hunt to find lovelies- as they are all around me in plain sight. Thus, this little grouping of Anthro-delight aims to show how your wedding can be both indicative of your style AND still remain personal.... it's all about merging who you are with where you've come from, in a celebration of where you are headed!

Sometimes it can be tricky to "try to be sophisticated"... ultimately, we tend to think black ties and formal gowns... but really- a grown-up palette and an dusk ceremony can be enough.... I love using this palette of teals and mushrooms.... it's so very mature yet fresh!

And when you are being so liberal in your bridal party attire, know that there does need to be some cohesiveness to it all- I've opted to really glam up the jewelry and perhaps the shoe selection as well so that long and short dresses give off the same message of formality. I would go with antiqued hydrangeas or queen annes lace handtied in a loose-structure for the bouquets.

For a sophisticated affair, I always urge that the event take place in three stages: the cocktail hour, the dinner, and the dancing. If at all possible, it is nice to have each of these in a different area of your location- as the constant change of senery adds to the drama of the evening and the overall flow of the event.

I like to think of the cocktail hour as an introduction of sorts... it will set the stage for the rest of the evening. Provide lots of conversation starters. Signature drinks, wedding photos of guests, and little pieces of information about the couple are wonderful conversation starters. For the cocktail hour, skip the flowers... focus more on good lighting (remember that guests will be less self-concious in dimmer, more flattering light)... a well-stocked bar... cleverly-packaged appetizers.... and a couple of impactual design elements. Recently, I have renovated an old card catalog cabinet found on ebay. By sprucing up the hardare and adding a runner and a few candles and framed photos, it can be a beautiful focal piece... additionally, I love the idea of using the drawers (some can have as many as a hundred) to house the escort cards.


Elegance is simple. It is unpretentious. It can be relaxed and not stuffy. Such is the case with this table. I envision simple linens, topped with a runner of interesting vases used as pillars for platters to sit atop- what is more grandeure than a family-style feast down a long table? When I watch movies such as Marie Antoinette, I am constantly reminded how much I would LOVE for a bride to skip the whole plated production and flowers ...and have the food right there... for the dinner to extend over an hour with good conversation and amazing food. If you are looking for an inexpensive way to go elegant, I love the idea of having family contribute to a "pot luck" of sorts earlier in the day... then having a waitstaff hired on to keep the drinks filled and the clean-up in order.... by spending your money on beautiful serving pieces rather than flowers and decor, you'll have heirloom pieces for years to come!


And on to dancing (another reason to keep the food seperate from the dancing is that a waitstaff bussing tables is a bit of a mood killer... keep the energy up by leaving the mess behind to really unwind!). I have found that if there are a TON of chairs around for the wallflowers to retreat to, then they will NEVER make it onto the dance floor... but if they've been wined and dined and there is limited seating (more lounge-like) then your older guests will converse and your younger guests will mingle and dance the night away. If dancing is taking place outdoors, I think that the most elegant way to carry on this overall feel, is to bring a piece of elegant furniture outside. Perhaps add a beautiful chandelier draped over the branch of a tree... a rug... a few mis-matched chairs, and a firepit... and you've got yourself a party that's inviting yet refined. Hang a few more of the chandeliers over the dance floor, add a little lighting effects (perhaps drape fabric here and there with par-cans shooting colorful lighting upwards)... and you've set the stagefor an unforgettable affair..

One Stop Shop: Anthropologie Casual

I LOVE the bright hues all over Anthropologie and think that it would be a great source of inspiration for a casual daytime wedding... subdued hues can get washed out by the sunshine of a brunch or mid-day celebration... but these bold gem tones can hold their own against the bright rays.

Now these are dresses that you really CAN wear again! The level of saturation, length, and overall formality are enough to uniform the bridal party without being too matchy-matchy.... and I am LOVING these necklaces, available in a myriad of hues.

Greet guests with a vintage door that has Anthropologie's signature knobs screwed in all over it- each with a small notecard hanging to escort guests to their tables.... (How lovely will these knobs look all around your home after the wedding is over?!)

The idea of infusing your style is not to over-design the space. You probably have already fallen in love with your location for its natural beauty. It's simply a way to bring small touches of personalization to the area... and it is always nice to keep the event cohesive by having a definative thread/message/tone. You can create make-shift seating areas by simply exchanging a few of the rental cushions on chivaris for these.... toss a few pillows onto any rented or pre-existing lounge furniture or benches... hang a few brightly colored chandeliers from the trees or indoor rafters.... Take photos from your engagement session and have them enlarged and then matted atop GORGEOUS sheets of wallpaper, placed in an ornate frame.


You don't need to go overboard on the tables with mounds of flowers to bring in color. I love the idea of crisp white linens and a runner made of varying heights of candleabras, votives, and candle sticks. Frame the table number in a pretty frame and hang a few lamp-shades overhead (with lantern light kits) for simple but oh-so-chic style!

Even if you are opting for a buffet or plated dinner.... I always suggest a station or two later in the night. Sometimes guests just need a break from dancing and thus it is nice to have some sort of interactive entertainment for them. If your guests are not much for coffee... try an exotic tea station... if your event is going into the wee hours, opt for a breakfast food station.... And here is where you can actually splurge a little and get those oh-so-amazing bowls or tea sets that go PERFECT with the event. Typically, only about half of the guests will utilize the station- and when it is all over, a set of these make PERFECT bridal party gifts!

The idea is that you can start with what you already know about your design aesthetic... and go from there- what I love most about a wedding being reflective of your design is that when it is all over- you don't have yards of tulle or hundreds of tiny boxes in the shape of wedding cakes- you have pieces that can easily be reworked and recycled into your home and lifestyle...

One Stop Shop...

Sometimes I feel that the biggest hurdle to overcome when helping brides plan a wedding is getting them to understand that their wedding style is NOT mutually exclusive from their personal style. For some reason, when the words design and wedding enter into the same context, there seems to be these weird undertones that arise, where who we are and who we think we should be somehow seem to be worlds apart. When I think of my own brides and their designs, I try to encourage them to style their wedding the same way that they would style their home or their wardrobe... it is all about taking elements that are already in place and then turning them into a celebration. Typically, one of my first questions that I ask when we start discussing the design is not what colors they like or what flowers they adore... it's "If you could have a shopping spree at any store... which would it be?"

And so brings us to the first in a series of posts on "One Stop Shopping"... the concept is simple enough... I am going to attempt to show how an entire event could be pulled from ONE STORE... I'll post a casual/sophisticated/offbeat version from each... and hopefully this little exercise will encourage each of you to stop seeking inspiration in tired wedding shops... and start searching your own style!

Snapshot: Susan Stripling

Gorgeous + Ethereal... those are the two words that come to mind when I browse through Susan's portfolio. Her images are timeless and soft and feminine and flowing with drama and underlying stories. Simply put, they are pretty and make you feel something- what more can you ask? She's based in Florida but available for travel- so hurry on over and give her site a looksie.

As my taste in photography continues to be ever-evolving, I am beginning to realize how much I am not really a fan of "photo-journalism" as much as I am a fan of "unobtrusive editorial-style photography" (I am sure that there is a much better term for this but this is the best I could come up with for now). As I meet more photographers and get a feel for what their styles are... I am beginning to see that I favor photographers who do instruct their subjects vaguely and then capture the magazine-worthy moments in an unexpected way. I love photographers, like Susan, who seem to have a vision for the photograph before it ever happens. I can appreciate this artistic approach. Now- I will be the first to rant about photographers that spend too much time "trying to force emotions that never happened at the wedding" or even creating whole scenes for show... but I will also say that sometimes we just aren't all that glamorous on our own. All too often I see brides spend oodles on their wedding photography with a reputable photographer but ask that their photos are ALL photo-journalistic... only to be disappointed with how mediocre and standard the reality of their day truely was. Sure, they're good photos- and awesome angles and editing... but they lack that punch, that drama, that EMOTION....If a bride is wanting to be photographed EXACTLY as it happened then strictly photo-journalistic styles are the way to go... but if they are wanting to be photographed exactly as they WANT to see it happen and unfold, then perhaps finding a photographer that is unobtrusive, creative, and a bit of a visionary is a better route. My favorite photographers know when to direct and when to coast on auto-pilot, and in the opinion of this blogger- THAT is the balance that one should seek in their wedding photography.

Home-grown: Etiquette of Chocolate

One of my goals this year is to put a little more effort into developing a local resource for North Florida Brides within the blog. While those plans are underway but not nearly close to completion (more on that later)... I want to introduce you to my most recent find.... Etiquette of Chocolate- located on Kingsley Avenue in Orange Park, Florida. Jaycel and Judy are bringing such a refined (and delicious) treat to the first coast. They studied at the French Culinary Institute in NYC and interned under Ron Ben-Israel, thus one can expect nothing short of mouth-watering delight within each of their carefully crafted bonbons. I was introduced to this duo through a current bride of mine. We have been working closely with Jaycel and Judy to develop both a gorgeous cake design and a favor concept centered around their signature line of bonbons. Each bonbon is named after relationships that people form (love, compassion, etc)- all elements that my bride felt were essential within her marriage... thus we are naming her tables after each of these, offering a sampling of the delicious squares to her guests, and attaching a little love letter from the couple- explaining how each element is important to them. I am excited for to carry out the execution and will be sure to share pictures from this one in July. In the mean time, be sure to stop into either Matthew's Market (San Marco) or Bottega di Bella Sera (Park and King near 5 points)or Etiquette of Chocolate Studio (Kinglsey Ave in Orange Park) to pick up your box to share or indulge solo...

Designer Showcase: Amor*Ology

Love Love LOVING this mother-daughter duo! They are located in Sunny California- yet it is so uncanny... many of their designs reflect so many of my own brides' weddings... finding their portfolio was like finding my long lost wedding design soulmate. I ESPECIALLY love their school-themed wedding, which has many elements that I am planning for my own wedding. I encourage you to stop by and check out their extensive featured gallery. It is so full of fun wit and oozes with inspiration!

SIDE NOTE: (And for all you vendors out there... take note... this is how to do a website! I love its simplicity and carefully edited portfolio. It is well-rounded and cohesive and reflective of their design aesthetic... as a potential bride, I feel that I get a good impression of what to expect.) If you are looking to spruce up your own website, use the Blu Domain team- very affordable and their templates are priceless!

I heart... Valentines! {and chocolate}

I know that it is a really really cheesy holiday. I know that florists and Hallmark are making a killing... but I can't help it. I think that it is WONDERFUL that we've decided to take an entire day to be kind. to reflect and perhaps obsess over "love". Whether you say it with flowers or with chocolate... or a fumbled message within a $5.45 card.... just say it! I love taking today to pamper myself... to remind myself of why I fell in love with Mr. Oh Happy in the first place... and to step back from "reality" and delight in that feeling of giddy, hopeless courtship- cheesy roses and teddy and all! If you don't have a Valentine today, then draw a warm bath, light a few candles, and toast to your own accomplishments!

I stand corrected...

So last year you were able to hear me rant and rave about how videography needed to step up to the plate if it wanted to be considered as important as photography.... well- now that I am planning my own wedding... I am singing a wee different tune. I have been exposed to some AMAZING videographers over the last couple of months! Their prices are comparable with wedding photography... but then again, so is their product! They have taken their craft to the next level and so I am thrilled to introduce you to them:

1. Simply Cinematic
They are located out of Orlando and do great work. They describe themselves as photo-journalistic, unobtrusive... but with a slightly editorial twist. There are no giant lights in the guests' faces... no staged false memories... just a cleverly edited product that is reflective of the day as it unfolded. I love that they focus so much on all of the little moments that go into the overall celebration. The way the flower girl pouted in the corner, the expression of mom when she is frazzled... a bride that is a little nerveous- I love that each wedding is different and it seems that there is not a set structure of "shots" that they aim to get, rather they let it unfold as it may... BRAVO! (And their trailer sites... shown above are equally cool! photo by Agnes Lopez)

2. Four Seasons Films
This team of videographers is so amazing... they start with arial views of the entire area- they bring all of those elements that went into planning the theme (location, season, climate) and tie them into the wedding itself through an intricately woven video. I love how amazing their shots are, how fluid and grandose their overall execution is. This is a GREAT videographer if you are having a wedding at a resort or a weekend of festivities... their transition and ability to include so many elements in a seamless manor makes them one of my top three.

3. Cinematic Bride
Joshua has taken videography to the next level- I warn you that should you choose to visit his site, you will be there for hours... as each and every trailer and bridal video draws you in closer and closer. These videos do not only tell the day, they connect with their audience and provoke emotion- they aren't a wedding video... they are a cinematic masterpiece! Don't be too overly frightened by the HUGE price tag on the largest package, if you are willing to make way in your budget, there are more modest but equally substancial packages offered- and he'll travel... anywhere!

I'm Back! (For anyone that may still stop in...)

So the holidays turned into the new year and one trip has lead to another... and alas- I am back in the daily blogging spirit!

The bags are unpacked and my washer is in overload... but I am home and it feels WONDERFUL! Looking back, last year was really great for me. I was able to find my place in this great big world, embark upon a few new ventures, and ultimately decide the path I would like to travel.... so what lies ahead in 2008?

I predict that this year will be the best one yet- as I am working really hard on starting my on business (launching Fall 09)... I'll be traveling quite a bit throughout the year... I have some amazing weddings that I am working on... among them- I have my OWN wedding- as well as my sister and very close cousin..... It is going to be a great year in my neck of the woods! And what better way to start the year off then to give you a little list of things I am inspired by right now?

1. Foo Dogs


2. Carnies and Caravans


3. Vintage Children's Book Illustrations


4. Glamour of a lost age...


5. Kate Sutton

So this is Christmas...

And what haven't I done...

So very very sorry for the long break... it has been bananas over here!

Both my sister and very close cousin have announced their engagements (perhaps a little guest blogging in the works for 2008- we are all so very close and yet so very different in terms of our personalities and styles....)

My sister is going to be giving birth any moment... we are all on pins and needles as this will be the first baby of any of my siblings....

My own wedding plans are moving forward and I am so very anxious to share all of the fun details we are finalizing...

And I will be taking the next year to chronical my own journey into launching my own design studio... (anxious just typing it)

I've received numerous emails from all of you and promise responses and posts after the new year...

But for now- a little time off to celebrate the holidays and and family.... see you all in 2008!

Mailbag: BCBG Dress MIA....

Reader Steph:


So very sorry that the dress is no longer anywhere to be found on bluefly... however, it is still available through BCBG (but at the full price of $400). What I loved so very dearly about this particular piece, we the fact that it is remnicent of one of my favorite dress designers, Betsy Johnson. Here are a few pieces from her current collection:







Note though, that they rack in at comparable prices to BCBG so if you are really looking for a "deal" then perhaps it's back to bluefly- here are a few little black dresses that ARE in stock to get you started...

Tag- I'm it...

Alright... so I have been tagged by so many- for several different "share facts about yourself" posts... well the truth is (perhaps this can count as interesting fact #1) I'm not really good at those games. I get a little anxiety-stricken when websites ask for a profile that describes yourself in 500 words or less. I don't do well with first-day get-to-know-you exercises. I believe this stems from the fact that I am somewhat a loner and always have been. Don't get me wrong- I LOVE people. I love social gatherings. However, I prefer to sit back and analyze and be content in my little world. I was the kid that did group projects alone- that preferred to finger paint solo rather than play house with the other kids... ya know? But in the spirit of things, I decided to follow suit with The Preppy Wedding and offer up these interesting facts without provocation.


1. Egg nog or hot chocolate?
Weeknights I am hot chocolate with the jumbo sized marshmellows made with milk not water... but come Friday- I am on a three-day eggnog binge!

2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree?
My stepfather is Lithuanian and thus we have a traditional Lithuanian Christmas Eve Dinner where we exchange all of the wrapped gifts to one another. Santa, on the other hand, does not wrap the gifts. (I'm 23 and the eldest of 5, thus we still do the Santa thing for my youngest brother's sake).... infact, Santa likes to take the gifts out completely and set them up in interesting ways. One year I can remember waking to find that Santa had set up an entire campsite with a pitched tent, sleeping bag and gear, and inside was full of other goodies galore! Good ole Santa!

3. Colored lights on tree/house or white?
I have always favored white- something about the colors and the blinking makes me nauseus.

4. Do you hang mistletoe?
Every year- well my fiance does. Funny story: last year I was stopped at a red light after Christmas Shopping and a couple of children were selling mistletoe for $5. I bought two and brought them home proudly to show my fiance- only to be told that I was the proud owner of an unidentified twig and leaves....

5. When do you put your decorations up?
As soon as the last bit of turkey is out of the fridge- it's time for the tree! I can still remember my grandmother being so anxious (and eccentric) that we always had a massive tree up FOR Thanksgiving...

6. What is your favorite holiday dish:
I love my homemade chocolate chip shortbread. It really isn't a "holiday dish" but I seem to get into a baking frenzie around this time of year!

7. Favorite holiday memory as a child?
As I mentioned, I am one of 5 kids. We range in age as follows: 23, 22, 21, 20, 10 (yes I know that the youngest is too old to believe but we're keeping it going as long as we can- and my sister is expecting so it doesn't look like Santa will be skipping over our house anytime soon)..... every Christmas Eve- after we have opened all the family gifts, we stay up for hours chatting and bonding as a family... and when we can't hold our eyes open anymore- we nodd off- but every year without fail (admittedly even to this day *blush*) someone wakes up around 4 and drags all of us out of bed to see what's under the tree from "Santa"... it must have been terribly awful for my parents- waiting until 2 to sneak the gifts out there, arrange them- and then be woken just as they doze off...

8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa?
I was 3. My parents were teaching me to read. My father thought it would be a great idea to write me a note from Santa. Unfortunately, it was in his handwrighting and I was a pretty sharp little whipper-snapper.

9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve?
We sure do! All of them less Santa's. I think that this originated because we come from a family of divorces and extended families- so our Christmas Days are stretched really thin. It is nice to be able to slow down and really enjoy Christmas Eve in ONE place- with nowhere to rush off to.

10. How do you decorate your Christmas tree?
Our Christmas Tree is reflective of so many years in our lives. Both my fiance and I have taken bulbs from our families' tree and added a few of our own. Thus, we have a mix of bulbs hand-made and crafted by my Maciute (Lithuanian Grandmother), knitted by my Nana (Irish grandmother), painted by my fiance's Nina (Chamorro Godmother), and carved from wood by my crafty father's side. I love to take these pieces and mix them with really extravagant pieces- it's our little hi-lo masterpiece in the making.

11. Snow: love it or hate it?
I loved it as a kid. Now I am back here in Florida, so I miss it as an adult.

12. Can you ice skate?
I am wobbly. I always wanted to be a figure skater- however, I am the most clumbsy person that I know...

13. Do you remember your favorite gift?
I remember the Christmas during my parent's divorce. It was ugly. My mom was left with us and a mortgage and a business that was in debt after it was all over. There was nothing under the tree. My mother was in tears. My little brother was confused as she tried to explain that Santa just hadn't made it to our house yet because the world was soooo very big that he sometimes can't get to every house in one day. I was about 5 and understood. I was disappointed but knew not to show it or my mother would completely loose it. Then there was a knock at the door. It was a marine- dressed in the gloves and all- he was my hero. He delivered present after present "straight from the north pole"... my little brother's eyes lit up. My mother was so thankful. It was the kindest thing anyone has ever done. To this day, I don't think that she or anyone knows who made it happen, but I make sure to sponsor a family each year because of it!

14. What’s the most important thing about the holidays for you?
Family. For sure. Things get really crazy around here for the rest of the year. It is really strange for me, with my siblings all being so close in age- we grew up together and did everything as a unit.... then one day it was like I woke up and realized that we all had our own lives- and now with me getting married and my sister becoming a mom- my brothers about to be engineers and biologist- it all happens so fast. I love the holidays when we can all slow down and feel that warmth and comfort again.

15.What is your favorite holiday dessert?
I love my homemade shortcake... BUT Cheesecake Factory Pumpkin Pie Cheesecake is so very yummy!

16. What tops your tree?
nothing. this is sort of an ongoing debate with us. when I was younger, and my parents had little money- we ALWAYS cut a star from cardboard and covered it in foil and glitter and made the most kitsch topper ever.... and somewhere between them getting better job offers and bigger houses, this tradition remained. Now that I have my own tree, I want to let this go but find myself torn- so for now it is bare.

17. Which do you prefer, giving or receiving?
I'm a giver. It's a sickness. I get so giddy about the "perfect gift"... I like to get something thoughtful that shows that I listen and understand my recipient

18. What is your favorite Christmas song?
"A Few Of My Favorite Things..." or "So this is Christmas..."

19. What is your favorite Christmas movie?
The Christmas Story. For sure. I like to turn it on for the entire 24 hour marathon they do every year.

20. What would be the best gift you could receive this year?
A new car! Last year, I gave my mustang to my younger brother as a graduation gift so that I could downgrade and save on a payment... while having no payment is nice- and the Vespa is lovely for the neighborhood... I could use something with a little more room!!!

Alright... enough about me... how about you? How do you spend your holidays?

Mail Bag... a little belated

If you've stopped by a couple of times today you'll notice that I'm unloading several posts that I have been too busy to get around to. In my attempt at cleaning house around here- I've uncovered a reader question that was unintentionally overlooked. A while back, I posted on long-sleeve wedding gowns worn by the lovely Jackie O (hers was not for a wedding, but was so very bridal worthy)... and was asked where to find a modern alternative....

I enjoy the work of Stuart Parvin. His simplistic silhouettes and sleeves are so very remnicent of the gowns in question, while his larger-than life single appliques keep the gown modern and NOW.

I heart... knits

I sort of missed the knitting craze... and I swear that one day I will get around to learning... while at Barnes and Nobles last night I saw this lovely book and was so very inspired by how soft and delicate the knits are. Here in Florida the sun is blazing- and I find myself longing for the winters of my childhood in Maine and Indiana. For now, I'll just dream of Snowbrides and warm nothings.

Etsy, Kate Sullivan, OhJoy

B-C-B-Gorgeous for the Holidays!

As a newly-engaged gal, much of your guestlist will be returning the favor... with all these holiday parties... shopping for a dress can be a bit tricky- what with a wedding to plan and everything... I LOVE Bluefly.com They have all the dresses that I loathe for in the stores, and at a fraction of the price- AND without the long lines... check out these lovely little numbers from BCBG- all holiday worthy and Oh Happy Approved.

Snapshot: Jason Wallis

I don't know how I stumbled over Jason's blog... I just know that once I did- I was so very captivated. I think that I am drawn to photographers that are not promarily "wedding photographers". While I completely agree that not every great photographer can shoot a wedding (there are so many important elements that have to be perfect shots every time)... I find that photographers who are skilled with weddings, but are more focused on their editorial and commercial sides, bring a little something extra to the table. Jason's work has a sense of humor. I love it. Check out this national campaign he recently did... not only are the captions halarious but the photos have such personality as well



And look at his portrait work! Lovely and raw... just how I like it... I once read an essay in college that really touched me. It spoke of how we dress up in our sunday's best for formal photo sessions- the pieces of documentation of who we are and what we were- that will forever be the proof of our existance for ages. Mothers wipe their children's mouths and comb their hair... and all the while- 90% of our lives are spent in wrinkled blouses and stained shoes and wind-swept hair and embarasing little crumbs on the corners of our mouths. Who are we kidding?

Welcome Style Me Pretty Readers!

Abby over at Style Me Pretty was so very kind to include my little blog in her collection of "reader blogs". Blogs like Style Me Pretty were what inspired me to find a place to collect all of my thoughts and web "snippets" thus it was so very delightful to see that my small contribution is reaching beyond that of myself, my mother, and my newly-engaged sister. So for all of you SMP readers who may have stumbbled upon my neck of the woods...

Pull up a seat. Put on a pot of tea and make yourself at home.

Today I was browsing around and found this picture:

I LOVE LOVE LOVE it! And of course, I immediately began to wonder how I could turn this into an event design. Sure, the stark white could be done by choosing a modern museum and with the help of lovely modern rental companies-- but what makes this so very interesting is the use of the bold patterns. How on earth can this be acheived without wallpapering the venue?!? The answer is to use lazer-cut screens or even fabric panels. These are GREAT to break up a large space and light enough to hang from exposed rafters without fear of structural damage. Here are few of my favorites:


This is actually a fabric panel. These are custom made so almost any pattern is possible!

This screen is made of plastic and would make such an interesting piece of art after the event!

These little numbers are wonderful because of their petite size! You could have fun pairing them in interesting arrangements!

A bit more opaque, these are made of recycled materials and would be AMAZING in a large space to add texture and break up the layout!

A little more whimsical than modern, these are popping up all over in the retail market.

So where to go from here? Allow the patterns to spill over onto the invitations, small details, cake, and even the linen selection. The best part about having an event that is reflective of your design style is that many of the items that you purchase can easily transition into your new home so you won't feel quite as guilty splurging here and there!

I heart.... flipbooks

So in my quest for generating ideas for MY wedding... I came across FlipClips... as many of you are aware, we are planning our wedding around the fact that we were high school sweethearts- and thus we are incorporating many retro elements into the day. We have been struggling with ideas for a creative engagement announcement... and I think that a flipbook is just the answer! How does it work? Go onto the site and upload a 15-30second movie clip... the clips are then converted into still frames (75 frames for 15 seconds)... then pick a cover design and message- and voila! You have yourself a flipbook in the mail. These can also be really great for thank-you's afterwards. Just have your videographer do a 30 second "highlights" edit of the wedding- The possibilities are endless, really....

We are going to take this concept even further by incorporating "flipbooks" on our website as well... Benetton Play allows you to make simple animations from basic drawings- and Flip allows you to combine video, audio, pictures, and drawings to create a multi-media presentation... our website is going to have the "look" of a high school notebook and we'll have little animated doodles on each page.... we'll be making them re-appear on items throughout the wedding such as place cards, menus, etc.... We really do not take ourselves too seriously so I think that it is great for our wedding to reflect that as well....

Good Luck and Happy Planning!

Let's Talk About Sex.... really.

I hope that everyone's Thanksgiving was full of turkey and stuffing and cranberry sauce- and that each of your refridgerators do not have any left overs lingering....


This morning I opened up office to find hundreds of emails from clients, vendors, and salespeople alike--- but one stopped me in my tracks (which is hard to do on a Monday after a long weekend)... it was from Rebecca at The While Aisle- for those of you that drop by often, I am sure that you have seen her link to the right and possibly even stopped in here and there to see her fabulous little shop. I believe that I was first introduced a few months ago and instantly fell in love with the lacey-vintage designs of her invitation lines....

Today's email, however, was not full of lace and lovelies- it told of her travels around Asia. You see, the wedding industry (despite geographical location) has "seasons"... when we are in season- it is BANANAS... and when we are out of season, it is a ghost town. Some vendors take this off-season to travel and catch up on much-needed vacationing. Rebecca and hubby close up their shop and travel for an entire month- you can track them on their blog....




During their recent trip to Cambodia, they were faced with the cruel reality of the child sex trade.... and felt compelled, if not obligated and passionate about making a difference. You see, the difficulty with these children being caught up in the brothels is that they can not leave even if they are permitted to do so... as this is their source of income and they are reliant on it for food and shelter. Thus, the most powerful way to make an impact on these childrens' futures is to give them an alternative way to become self-sufficient. Rebecca is teaming upwith an organization in Phnom Penh- which offers children the ability to come to their vocational training facilities to work during the day. Additionally, all workers are encouraged to sleep at the neighboring housing. Over time, this method has proved to be rather successful in generating independent and reformed women ready to re-enter "normal" society.



Rachel is taking part in the cause by offering several of the products in her shop, with 100% of her profits on these items going back to the women. The beautiful silk sashes would compliment nearly any bridesmaid dress.... and the matching ring pillows and hand-made flowers are too sweet to pass up....

In addition to the amazing craftmanship that these products offer, the message that they represent is worth far more than their weight in gold. I encourage each of you to stop by The White Aisle and give these items a looksie- and while you are there... give a few kudos to Rebecca as well....

Note To Bride.... To Bespoke or Not To Bespoke...

Lately, I have encountered something rather puzzling in the world of hopeful brides. You see, I meet with a bride- we go over all of the amazing ways that her wedding can be reflective of HER- we discuss the options out there... she swoons over photos of other events and ideas from magazines.... and then we hit a road bump. It seems that though many brides are buying into lovely, couture weddings- they are experiencing sticker shock. They KNOW what to expect in terms of the overall price tag- but many are so very suprised to see the quotes for the individual elements. A few have even compromised our original visions for less expensive "customized" options. I use this term loosely as just about every company out there is placing a "bespoke" and "custom" tag on their products... with the premise that altering a color here or a pre-drawn image there makes their product specific to YOU (the bride)... when infact, such tags as :bespoke: were created for a select group of individuals who offer tailor-made products... and it is this passion and customization that support their price tag.

In order to properly illustrate this... I have enlisted the help of designer, Margot Moussempes of Atelier Isabey- a truely Bespoke Invitation Studio. Visiting her site, as with all custom invitation studios, you can view the sets for previous clients- and are asked to contact her to start the design on your OWN invitation.... So what exactly happens when you make that bold move and decide to go the custom route??

"To give you an idea of how we work, when we develop concepts and designs for our clients, we start from scratch, drawing, researching and sketch out ideas for our brides. We customize a one of a kind design based on information and details provided by the couple (ie. the flowers in the bouquet, dress details, cake, family heirlooms, etc..)"

"When concepts are ready for presentation we present them to the client along with mood boards for each design concept to help them understand the ideas and the inspirations we drew to create the designs. The moodboard helps to convey the overall feel and, in the example of Jane & George, we drew inspiration from traditional English gardens, flourish typefaces, old vintage shop signs, traditional ironwork, etc..."

"After picking one concept direction to go with, we go through several rounds of revisions. We recommend some color options, suggest paper choices, and make edits to design and copy or anything else that the couple would like to change before sending the work out to print at one of our master printer studios."

"We show one final proof before anything is sent off to press. We work really closely with talented letterpress, silkscreen, engraving and offset printing artists as well as calligraphers that bring our designs to life. Once we've carefully checked over each and every invitation set, we package them neatly into a box and off they go in the mail to be received by the couple."



I want to thank Margot for sharing her process, and truely hope that each bride reading this is able to understand the amount of time, effort, passion, and talent that goes into each of these beautiful pieces of printed ephemera. Next time that you find yourself wondering if the pricetag on any element of your special day is too high- remind yourself that the vendor must make a living as well- and then consider how much time will be going into your product and how that will affect the amount of projects that they can work on at a given time. In turn, be weary of vendors whose pricetags are slightly higher than usual- but whose product and attention to customer service do not reflect the same pricipals of "bespoke" design...

Snapshot: Jeanne Ciasullo

Last night I was searching the web for inspiration and ideas and somehow stumbled upon a really interesting photgrapher... as I flipped through her work, I was really impressed by the raw-quality that it had- capturing life as it is and not necessarily like we imagine it to be..... and then came one picture- a familiar place... and suddenly I realized that this photographer was local. Since then I have made contact with Jeanne and found her to be a lovely gal- and look forward to working with her soon...Jeanne is fairly new to Jacksonville and does amazing portrait, wedding, and children phorography. Additionally, she is accomplished as a makeup artist as well. Her site is a little under construction and the new one will lanch in a week or so- but stop by and show her some love...

Going Vintage.... But Staying Modern....

I hope everyone has had a chance to check out Vintage Week.... as promised, I've put together a little something for those that are looking to go a little retro...

I've had brides that have used just about every era for inspiration. When such inspiration is pulled from very style-specific places (such as Victorian or Mid-Century Modern).... it can seem limiting at first. The trick is to use the inspiration as a guide for planning... but to allow yourself the flexibility to go outside of just this genre. By allowing modern interpretations of and influences from these designs to appear in your event... you will keep it fresh and it will not seem dated.

For instance.... and this is something that I have been getting quite a bit with my younger brides.... when a bride tells me "We are looking for an anti-wedding. I can't imagine myself in a bridal gown. I can't see him in a tux. We don't like fluffy flowers- can we not have flowers? I don't really want a big cake. We just want our guests to have a good time. We want something that is really vintage but a little rock star- you know?" .... (yes, I really have brides like this)... I generally take it in and interpret it something like this:

Solution A: Fall Vintage Rockstar- it is all about rich colors, textures, and a little velvet here and there... Play up the "feel" by using vintage wallpaper samples, cameos, and antique brooches throughout the event...

The Inspiration: Dita's Wedding


The Fashion:



The Flowers: (via Fresh)





The Invitation: via huetopia


Suggested Seating: (Urban Outfitters and )




Elements to Tie the Wedding Together:





The Cake:



Solution B: Spring Vintage-Mod Rockstar- This is all about ethereal romance with a twist- a design inspired by the past but so very NOW....

The Inspiration:Lula Magazine


The Fashion:



The Flowers:think poppies, kale and queen anne's lace- it's all about delicate texture





The Invitation:Unlesssomeonelikeyou (Etsy)



Suggested Seating: via Urban Outfitters





The Cake: Bakery Bar and Ann Wood

You've got mail....

I was so very excited to see that Vane is doing a Holiday Card Swap! I think one of the most amazing feelings is when you receive something lovely in the mail- and especially around the holidays when your funds seem to be going to everyone else... so pull out that craft supplies and head on over to Brooklyn Bride for more information...

Showing Blog-Love...

Just wanted to let everyone know that The Bridal Wishlist is hosting a "Vintage Week"... typically they are the resource for a modern bride so it will be interesting to see their take on vintage weddings.... also, if you have a chance, stop by their invitation design studio, Occasions and Celebrations.

In honor of their celebration of modern-meets-vintage... check back this afternoon and I'll be posting ideas on how to have vintage undertones whether you are looking for a sweet traditional wedding... or one with a little modern edge....

I heart.... Cheeky Pinup Photography & Our Vets

I love vintage pinups- especially cheesecakes from WWII... and try to keep up with some of the modern pinups and burlesque gals throughout the nation... they are just the perfect mix of glamour and cheeky humor - thus I was so very thrilled that one of my dear friends informed me that she has decided to do a calender for her fiance... what fun! She's taken elements of their courtship and asked me to help style a 12-month ode to their relationship... which she'll be giving him after their wedding...

I really love this idea- imagine a glamorous photoshoot based around YOU... with all of the over-the-top sex kitten hair and makeup that would be too risque for the wedding... imagine a reason to buy all those adorable pieces of lingerie that are just not "bridal" material... and imagine the suprise on that groom's face when he sees that though he is eternally bound to the woman of his dreams- there are 12 more months of "fantasy gals" to safely enjoy.... just a thought....


and if you should have enough moxie to do such a thing... keep in mind the following:
1. Research the Photographers in your area that do the vintage pinup style. There are many shady operations that "claim" to be pinup photographers. It is my suggestion that you view their website.... see their portfolio... and get referrals. I have had several friends disappointed with ameature shots.... remember that the price tag is NOT the best way to choose a photographer but that too good of a deal is a good indicator that the quality will be lacking. The photos above are from Vivas Pinups.
2. Bring a friend! Or a sister... someone that is there to know your comfort zone and willing to tell you the TRUTH about what is flattering and what is not. It is important to know the fine line between classy and distasteful... Most photographers are great about this... but it is always good to have another opinion there- plus it will help to calm your nerves.
3. Bring lots of ideas... research research research... poses and facial expressions... if you want this to be more editorial in nature know that it is up to YOU to make it work- so do your homework!
4. Hire a professional makeup and hair artist! Part of what makes these so very glamorous is the fact that the makeup and hair is very period specific and over-the-top... should you try to DIY, do several trial runs and remember that you will be paying your photographer for their studio time as well... so it is very important to keep this in mind as you transition from one look to the next.
5. NEVER and I will repeat NEVER sign the disclaimer that gives the ownership of these photos to the photographer. I do not care that they are really reputable and that this is their standard operating procedure. See the pictures above? They are LOVELY- I think so too... and so do you... and anyone else that is reading this... or anyone that saw the numerous site links on google....I'm sure they signed that disclosure- get the picture? (most of these women are actually pinup models and I am sure that they are more than comfortable with the sharing of the pictures... however, my point is that YOU would be doing this for HIM and not so much for HIS BUDDIES with access to the internet...)


If you need any references for more information on pinup photographers, makeup, stylists, clothing, etc.... feel free to contact me and I'd be happy to help.

Alright kiddies... that about wraps it up for the night...

Jacksonville is a Navy town... and thus today was so very full of festivities. I hope that each of you took time today to honor the vets...

Stroll on over to Nic Events

I am just getting around to answering the mail sent over the past week - sorry! But wanted to share a new find of mine. Nicole of Nic Events sent me a press release. I made my way over to her site today and I must say that it is lovely. She pairs her knowledge of illustration and graphic design with her recent trip to the alter- to bring you a stationary studio/event planning company that is unique in its own right. Now I know that all letterpress is lovely... and it seems that there is a new face around every online corner... but Nic Events is different- really. There is a story behind each custom piece... the invitation merges the personalities, traditions, culture, and dynamic of the couple- creating something that is not only pleasing to the eye, but endearing to the individuals as well... give her a looksie (she's a little under construction right now).. and I am sure you'll see what I mean.

Yummy Yummy Goodness...

I've mentioned before that I am not much for cake... but these are just so darn cute I might reconsider... Bakery Bar is dishing out these sweet pieces of confectionary joy in Portland, Oregon- one of the destinations we were considering (look at this cool place!- it was a top-runner in our hunt for a school to get married in)

A little update...

Alright... so my schizo-bride has been tamed... and I can finally move forward with planning my wedding! I won't disclose all the details just yet... but here's a little board to wet your palette... we'll be doing a destination wedding a little south of Jax- to Boca Raton/Delray... at Old School Square... with the inspiration behind the design being the fact that we were high-school sweethearts that met in the cafeteria...

where are my manners?? sorry... here are the credits:
{Suit-H&M, Save The Date-Sway Space, Dress-Johanna Hehir, Invitations- ??, Dessert Display- Vanilla Bake Shop}

Yummy Invite Duo

As you all are well aware, my posts have been sparce lately due to work... but as promised, I have a ton of posts saved up from snippets here and there... so check back often as I'll be sending them out throughout the next couple of days... First up... yummy invites from two rather talented companies...






I found bird and banner to be so very refreshing... their designs are fun and young and great for either a couple that do not take themselves too seriously- or a pre wedding function...





And the second part of this little invite-duo is the lovely and talented Diane Lamendola- what I love about these invites is that there are cohesive threads that bind the set... but they aren't forced and so "matchy matchy".... Each piece can hold its own, but is still a delightful addition to the overall event...

THE PINK FILES...

Not sure why this did not post on Monday? In any case... here it is... a little belated...

As promised, I will unveil the project that I have been working on... sort of. You see, about a month and a half ago I was contacted and asked to post "pink" for the month of October. I scoured the internet just as many other bloggers did, in hopes of finding some unique way to bind the wedding industry with breast cancer awareness. What I found was Making Memories Breast Cancer Foundation- and the project that most drew me in was The Pink Envelope Project. It was created by a group of women who began throwing girls nights out and asking that the guests bring a pink envelope filled with a donation to the foundation in whatever amount they were able to donate. The envelope allowed the monetary amounts to remain annonymous- and in the end everyone was able to feel great about the overall contribution. This project has since turned into an international movement.... with many brides adopting the "Pink Envelope Party" to incorporate their bridal luncheons, showers, and bachelorette parties. Furthermore, brides are taking it upon themselves to donate funds on behalf of their guests. All monies then go to the foundation, which grants the wishes of women suffering from breast cancer with less than a year left to live. These wishes range from wanting their child to have the funding to attend college once they are gone- to having their family flown in for one last hoorah. The courage and strength of these women is so powerful!

I have decided to bring the PEP to my neck of the woods. I am organizing a regional effort to have brides hold as many pink envelope parties as they can and come up with as many creative ways to get pink envelopes donated to the foundation. What's in it for them? I am teaming up with the top industry professionals in Jacksonville and asking that they donate their talents, services, products, and time to produce one AMAZING wedding.... and that the best boutiques and shops around town donate to a DREAM "Second Chance Registry". For every $25 raised, brides will earn ONE raffle ticket to win the wedding (for 100 guests to take place on 08-08-08)... for every $5 raised, non-brides and brides too far into their planning process will earn ONE raffle ticket for the registry. I will be teaming up with the community and be out and about around town raising breast cancer awareness and promoting the importance of mammograms. Additional information will be available on the website (which I have been working on for DAYS- I openly admit that I am no webmaster so be nice when you visit)... the website is set to premier by early next week... I will keep you informed...

If you are a bride in the Jacksonville area or a bride eyeing the sunshine state for a destination wedding for 08-08-08... then I encourage you to participate. If you are a vendor interested in sponsoring the event, please contact me at thepinkfiles.tscw@gmail.com

Like I stated, more information will follow soon- but I did want to get the buzz started as I feel that this is such a great win-win project for everyone involved...

Designer Showcase: Dana Barrow of Fresh

I have contemplated waiting to post this until Monday- but it simply can not wait... on yet another break from my project this weekend... I have found myself rumaging through the world wide web..... and I stumbled across Dana of FRESH- based out of Vermont.... and I am so very in love with this design. I love flowers and appreciate a variety of different styles when it comes to arranging them.... but when I found this studio, I saw my own reflection and that was so inspiring.... these flowers speak to ME- they speak to the clients that I attract... some of them closely mirror my own designs, while others seem to be tiny beacons for what I hope to accomplish soon... I love the thought that is put into the designs- the colors, the textures, the precise placement of unique and exotic blooms. I love that there is a story being told by the flowers- and most of all... I really love that it is such an affirmation that I am headed in a positive direction in my own designs... I urge each of you to visit the site and be inspired for your own weddings- and an added bonus- FRESH is so lovely as to explain the flowers that are shown in their extensive portfolio, making it much easier for those DIY brides to mimick and also to tell florists what you want...

Luck O the Irish...

I'm taking a break from my big project and found myself scouring the internet, researching the several destinations that my finace is looking into for our honeymoon. He is really set on Ireland right now- and somewhere between the rolling hills and exotic castle retreats, I found myself emersed in Irish Brides... and I am smitten! Look at the AMAZING finds from the lads and lasses of Ireland...



First up... these lovely gowns via Casablanca. I LOVE feminine gowns with lots of detailing and appliques. I also LOVE simple design with hints of old hollywood glam- thus when I found this designer, I fell in LOVE immediately, and think you will too...



And what better to pair the lovely gowns with than these delicate hair pieces via Stacey Hannan Designs? I love the trend with feathers just as much as the next gal- but aren't these jeweled pieces wonderful?!? I am really loving the oversized hair pins- they are just so fun!

Alright... back to work... I'll be back Monday with more details...promise

Pardon My Dust...

I've been swamped with work- and I feel that this poor little blog is suffering...Taking the rest of the week to focus on a large upcomming project- I promise to share on Monday... and to give this little blog a much-needed face lift... Please pardon the dust and I will be back with motivated posts next week... In the mean time, be sure to check out my Daily Reads to the Right, as there is always something lovely going on...